Today post is rather special coz it's specially dedicated to my family... First and foremost, the purpose of writing this post is because i have some reflections after reading one of my friend's blog.. Some people are not as lucky as me.. Having a pair of wonderful parents and a loving sister and most importantly, i spend quality time with my family... I have heard many stories abt my friends' parents.. Dad being a CEO, businessman, lawyer and mum being an ambassador, actress, the big fames one can get... Indeed they are big shots in the crowd of ordinary people... Their kids are lucky.. They will get what they want... The latest electronic devices, a room which they desire or the nicest branded goods... They name it and the parents will pay for it.... But are they truly lucky and happy? Sometimes i do wonder... Will they get enough of family warmth since their parents are so ever busy to keep their kids with company??
For me, i have a stubborn to the extent dad... He's a good cook as well as a family man who always think for the family... He's hot tempered at times due to his stubborness... But whatever is the case, he's a loving dad... Although many times i can't understand why is he so stubborn.. But i truly thank god that he's my dad... He will make an effort to spend time with us... Bringing us out for dinner or rather we eat dinner as a family together... Sometimes we just laughed crazily at his lame jokes... He's humorous at times which contradicts with his hot tempered side... Yea i love my dad...
Now to my mum.. She's a understanding woman who truly love this family as well... We spend time together going shopping or grandma's place during weekends... Travelling to certain countries if her leave clashes with my holidays.. She will try her best to get me what i want... Clothes, guitar, etc.. But now i will save up and just buy for myself, which i think is a better way.. Cause seriously, my mum doesn't print money.. So i get the things which i wanted and pay for it myself.. Well, what can i say.. Thank god too for giving me a wonderful mum...
I'm obstinate and thus sometimes need people to listen to me... And that's where my parents come into the picture... My mum is a good listener.. I don't have to hide any worries from her... Just tell her straight and she will give me some advices... But to put a halt to her on going stress from work, i now restrict myself to talk to her... Not totally but those which i think is kind of major, then i will open up to her... But one thing i am truly proud of myself.. I'm filial to my parents... I will try to make them happy.. I will return their calls... I try not to do things which they do not like me to do.. Some of my friends said that i'm a daddy's girl.. Very obedient... lolz... Actually not... I'm very naughty at times too.. Cause i have a playful heart.. But playful to a certain extend which my parents can accept... So i don't hurt my parents easily coz i do cherish them lots..
So, why am i telling u guys about all these family stuffs? It's simple... Because life is short and u really have to cherish family life as much as possible... My friend said home is where the heart is... Yea, he's right... Family is the closest to you.. The one who never give up on you no matter what... The one who will always be there when everyone ignores you... So, spend more time with your family... Cherish them before it's too late... Understand your parents well enough... I really love my family.. My parents, sister and the bond between us... Lastly, i hope to have them as my parents and siblings again in my next life and more to come if possible... I LOVE MY FAMILY LOTS!!!!